Something Old, Something New,
Something Borrowed, Something Blue
The old saying that a bride should
carry or wear something old, something new, something
borrowed and something blue is a time-honored
tradition that is supposed to bring the bride good luck. Each
of these items represents something different and can be
incorporated into the bride’s attire in several different
ways.
This fun tradition dates back for centuries and is still
honored by many modern day brides who are interested in
ensuring a little bit of luck for themselves or simply honoring
a tradition that has been passed on in their family for
years.
Choosing to wear something old expresses a desire to retain
your connections with your family after you enter into your
marriage and begin your own family. You may choose to wear a
locket with a picture of your grandmother on her wedding day
inside to express this sentiment.
Wearing a new item on your wedding day conveys the message
that you and your husband are creating a new union that will
endure forever
This old picture reminds you of your family and keeps them
close to your heart. You may also wish to incorporate something
old into your attire by having a handkerchief used by one of
your ancestors sewn into the lining of the skirt of your
wedding dress. Incorporating this item into your wedding dress
as a permanent feature is a special way to ensure that you will
always remember your family and that they will always be a part
of the new family that you and your husband create.
Wearing a new item on your wedding day conveys the message
that you and your husband are creating a new union that will
endure forever. There are countless ways to incorporate
something new into your attire. If you opted to include a
picture of your grandmother on her wedding day into a locket
that you wear on your wedding day, you might want to consider
putting a photo of you and your husband into the other side to
represent your new item.
Another new item to consider is a piece of jewelry, besides
your engagement or wedding ring that was given to you by the
groom such as a necklace or bracelet.
This is a special way to wear something new because it
expresses the love that you and the groom have for each other.
Wearing a borrowed item on your wedding day is used to
symbolize your love and admiration for the person from whom you
borrowed the item. Wanting to wear something that belongs to a
loved one lets them know that you want to include them in your
wedding in a very special way by wearing something that either
is held very dear to them or is something that represents them
symbolically.
One nice way to express this sentiment through a borrowed
item is to wear your mother’s wedding ring on your wedding day.
Doing this lets your parents know that you admire their
marriage and their respect for each other and that you hope to
have an equally satisfying marriage. It also lets them know
that you will be thinking of them on your wedding day and that
you want them to be with you in a special way.
Another way to incorporate a borrowed item into your wedding
day attire is to borrow a friend’s signature piece of jewelry.
If you have a close friend who has worn the same necklace for
as long as you have known her, you might consider borrowing
this particular necklace for your wedding day as a reminder of
your friendship.
Wearing something blue on your wedding day is a symbol of
the couple’s fidelity to each other. It may sound as though
incorporating blue into your wedding attire is a difficult task
but it really is much easier than it sounds. One simple tip for
wearing blue on your wedding day is to wear a necklace with a
blue stone. This is a beautiful yet inconspicuous way to wear
blue on your wedding day to ensure fidelity. Another way to
wear something blue is to include blue flower in your
headdress.
Some brides also opt to wear a blue garter under their
wedding dress to represent their blue item. If you choose this
option you might want to consider wearing two garters if you
plan to follow the tradition of having the groom remove your
garter and toss it to the single men in attendance. If you plan
to do this you might want to wear a blue garter and a white
garter and instruct the groom to remove the white one so that
he is not tossing away your garter that symbolizes
faithfulness.
Brides have been honoring the tradition of wearing an old, a
new, a borrowed and a blue item during their wedding for
centuries. Although wearing these items is supposed to
symbolize luck for the bride, they are also just a fun
tradition that gives the bride an opportunity to express her
admiration for a few special people in her life.
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